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Let food be thy medicine and thy medicine be food.  ~Hippocrates

I have been an advocate for food as medicine since I healed the cancer that threatened my well being.  Before the cancer, I had never viewed food as having power.  Pre-cancer, I viewed food as something to fill my stomach.  I will be the first to say that I was foolish to think such a thing.

Even though I am a healer, and practice many healing rituals, my body still exhibits symptoms that’d I’d rather not deal with.  It seems people have a misunderstanding that healers do not fall ill, or are above becoming sick.  That is a misconception in every way.

With fall in full colors, my head and my sinuses have not been happy.  Friends and family insist on me taking allergy pills, pain medicine, even other chemical versions of foods that are readily available to us in the fall.

Perhaps nature’s way of relieving fall pain is by providing us fall foods that will strike us symptom-less.

A friend of mine suggested I use MSM, a chemical grade of sulfur, as it helped her with her allergies, migraines, and other complaints.  I had never even heard of this chemical and started to research sulfur rich foods, which was when I found that many fall vegetables are excellent sources of sulfur.

Some sulfur rich foods include:

  • Garlic
  • Onions
  • Sweet Potatoes
  • Parsley
  • Swiss Chard
  • Cabbage
  • Pak Choi
  • Watercress
  • Broccoli
  • Legumes
  • Eggs
  • Asparagus

On a hunch that if I ate more of these sulfur rich foods my symptoms would be history, I decided to make a sweet potato soup and include many of the ingredients above!  As you can probably guess by now, I am without symptoms, and felt a difference within 30 minutes of eating my medicine.

I know my way around a kitchen, and thought that I would share with you my version of allergy kicking sweet potato soup.  (FYI…. I’m not fond of sweet potatoes and I found it enjoyable!)

Sweet Potato Soup

Ingredients:

  • Nitrate Free Bacon
  • 2 Large Onions (chopped)
  • 1/2 head of garlic (chopped)
  • 5 stalks of celery (chopped)
  • 5 carrots (chopped)
  • 4-5 sweet potatoes (peeled and chopped)
  • 1 box of broth (any will do)
  • 2-3 cups of water
  • Shredded cheddar cheese
  • Sour cream

First I browned the bacon until crisp in my soup pot and set aside to crumble for the topping.  In the bacon fat, then saute’ the onions, garlic, celery, & carrots.  If more fat is needed, you can add butter or coconut oil, I personally use just a small amount of the stock to bring up the flavors of the bacon in the bottom of the pan.  Adding the rest of the stock and sweet potatoes, the liquid should be just covering the potatoes.  If not, add 2-3 cups of water until just covered.

Let the potatoes cook on medium heat until soft, then remove from heat and use either an immersion blender (my favorite) or a regular blender to slowly blend the soup together.

Top with crumbled bacon, cheddar cheese, & sour cream as one desires.

I have omitted salt and pepper from the recipe, as it is a taste factor.  Some people like salt & pepper, others do not.  Certainly, use salt and pepper as you see fit as well as the toppings for the soup!

Another tip:  I added kale and swiss chard to my soup for added nutrients.  To add a bitter green, boil some water, cook the green for just a minute and remove from water.  Then add to soup before blending!  Cooking the bitter greens this way takes the bitterness out of the green while preserving all the nutrients!

Ruth writes:

hi
isnt there really any conditons in unconditional love? i know it sounds contradictory but i ask: mustnt there be mutual respect, i mean, if my friend accuses me that i m not there for her and i havent realised that, and i explained and she was still angry at me, then, what else can i do? dont i have the right to be protect myself from her anger? i think being judged unjustly or lacking to see a point of view means that i cannot love so unconditionally after all because i want to be treated fairly.

what s your opinion?
thanks
ruth

The 1st question:  Aren’t there conditions to unconditional love?  The answer is no.  If there are conditions to love, it is conditional love.  That doesn’t mean there is anything Wrong with conditional love, it just isn’t Unconditional.

2nd Question:  Mustn’t there be mutual respect?  I’m assuming you mean for love to be unconditional there must be mutual respect.  Again, the answer is no.  That would be a condition.  Respect, and mutual respect are conditions for one or each to meet.

3rd Question:  What else can you do with your friend’s anger towards you?  Absolutely not a thing.  You can love someone unconditionally and also walk away.  You cannot control what your friend feels, thinks, says, or does.  And who would want to?  You can love her unconditionally even though she is not loving You unconditionally.

Now being treated unfairly is not the same as loving unconditionally or being loved unconditionally…. rather, loving someone without conditions is loving them inspite of their mistakes, their wrong-doings, or their lack of respect for you or anyone else.

In the same breath, loving someone unconditionally doesn’t mean you let them walk all over you.  It means you love yourself enough to establish good boundaries, and if those boundaries are stepped across, one must be willing to verbalize that and communicate it.

So many people fall short on establishing boundaries because it means we have to communicate intimately with our family, friends, children, and co-workers.  But after one is in the habit (and good communication IS a habit one can develop), it becomes as second nature as eating lunch.  It becomes a necessity to everyday life.

Learning to communicate your personal boundaries is one of the steps that will bring you more peace of mind!

Choose Wellness Consciously!!
~Wendy

If you have a question you’d like answered, email Wendy at SpiritualLifeDesign@gmail.com!  Your question may appear under the Advice Category!  Questions in regards to creating an essential life physically, emotionally, or spiritually are welcome!